Pros vs. Cons

This is what life is about my friends :) nothing is perfect, and honestly I think perfect would be absolutely boring, you have nowhere else to go from perfect.  There are people in my life that were super focused on their career, and once they achieved their goal, they realized they needed the balance of a personal life.  Other people put all of their focus on the wedding, and don't realize is that the married life after the wedding is what needs our 100% focus, attention, and energy.

Those that get married young are still finding themselves and have to learn to grow together so they don't grow apart.  I got married later in life and the challenge of that is that we already come to the relationship as a complete and strong personality, and hopefully with compromise and respect, all life's happenings can be handled as a "we."

Then throw children into the mix and you got a party :) Sometimes parties are the best experience ever, and sometimes they get too intense - so that's were family, community, and staying strong in who you are come in.

Life happens my friends, crazy stuff happens, god forbid death, divorce, sickness - relationships are what keep us balanced - turn to support groups, family, friends, so important to communicate, let it out, deal with it, find what makes you happy.

Today has been such an amazing day, where everything I have done just felt good, I felt a total energy exchange.  When things are not so good, I always look at pros vs. cons.  The cons will always be there, but if there are more pros, then its worth the fight, or the energy :)

Happy Weekend,
Shabbat Shalom,
Yulia