Wednesday, June 27, 2012

A Few More Days

So here we are, took a few weeks vacation, and now a few more days left before the kids go to camp and we are pulling our hair out :)  Why you ask, those of you with no kids? It's that being present thing again while trying to get a million things done.  It's the end of the month, which is a busy time for me in my coaching business.  Also my baby just turned three months, my maternity leave is officially over, so I am calling all of my clients before baby, working on getting my flow back.

Speaking of pulling hair out, my daughter cannot get enough of playing, pulling, eating, playing peekaboo, etc.with my hair.  Now my baby is jumping on the bandwagon, his grip on my hair if it falls into his hands is fierce.  she twists it in her hands and sings "we are gonnna roll the Challa Dough!"  OY VEY - sorry folks but I gotta throw this in, I don't like my hair pulled anymore.

In my Diva days, had a catwalk gig, that is my friends design,
and my gorgeous makeup was the same artist that did my wedding
I have had such an amazing day of things happening that I needed to happen.  I really do not see a reason to get upset at anything anymore, it is just a waste of energy. 

Tips of the Day: IT IS WHAT IT IS

Everything else is just our emotions, interpretations, scenarios, feelings, explanations, opinions, (insert synonym here.)  When things are not going your way, think of what you need to happen, and it will happen, that is how the world works.  I have been having issues with my phone, my girlfriend gave me her phone she is not using, so now I always have both phones.  My old one has all my info, contacts, etc. and the new one is live.  Today I had a lot of people to call but could not find where I put my old phone.  Every person I was thinking of calling called me today, or I went on Facebook, sent messages, and there they were on chat.  Everything that I had wanted today happened, can you say that about your day?  Yeah this does not happen everyday, but I am just in appreciation that I realize the power of today.  Yes there is a lot on my plate, yes I have to change from maternity mode to supermom mode, yes we have STUFF that is not easy, but YOU JUST DEAL.

One of my good friends calls me a normie, she knows a lot of people that have addictive personalities, and when life gets rough its hard to handle.  Maybe alchohol, drugs, or even eating disorders are a way to cope.  For me it never made any sense to hurt myself, if I ever did anything it was for the fun and adventure of it all.  Don't you remember that cheesy song -  "When the going gets tough, the tough get going," that is the only way I operate.  Yes I feel down, yes I want to scream, yes sometimes I feel like my "Homework From God" (that is a quote from my dear mother) is right now.  Would I have it any other way? NO WAY JOSE - LOL - sorry for all the CAPS - just in a silly mood now.  Everyone is asleep including my husband, we are still recovering from our road trip.  I took a good nap today with the baby, my husband took the kids to visit their Saba, grandfather in Hebrew. 

Looking at this picture, all I really miss from my single life is the dress up and the amazing people that I met.  Other than that I feel blessed, I love where I am, I love who I am. B'H

Feeling connected to the purpose of it all, wishing the same for all y'all
Yulia - Yulichka - Yehudit - Julie - Medovoy - Edelshtain
(All of my Aliases :)

1 comment:

  1. U just have to organize theme party at your house and U put the theme that way, U can disfraz yourself once a month if U can have a party once a month my dear ;@)

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