So many things on my mind, and the common thread with all of it was the concept of timing. It really plays into every little ounce of life and living. My husband and I both lived in LA from the year 2000, and we both love one specific gas station which was way out of the way, because it was always the lowest price. I bet we had crossed paths there, and we were always in the same area on Saturday's as he was going to synagogue and I would be doing my weekly Yoga with my teacher in the same neck of the woods. I would drive by seeing all the people dressed up and socializing at all the synagogues I would pass and it would make me smile inside. I always feel grateful that I married not only my husband but a community, so diverse, so fun, so full of life, Thank God. We met in January 2007 and were both ready, engaged April 2007, married August 2007. My roommate at the time would ask how it was going, and I really had nothing to say, it was just going in the right direction, it felt right, no drama, no gossip, perfect timing for both of us in our lives, Thank God.
Where kids are concerned I really feel you just gotta do it, there is no right time, that is my opinion. I wanted them one after the other before 40 and that is how it happened, I got married at 34. I feel blessed that it was all healthy and right for me, Thank God. There will never be enough money, time, or the perfect circumstances for kids, you just figure out how to live your life around them. Bringing beautiful souls that will bring light into the world has been a wonderful experience. Day to day not so easy, I didn't sleep all night, my poor baby is stuffy, has teeth coming in, and his digestive system is still figuring out the stopping of formula and the starting of food. So literally all night waking up, so I am exhausted and decided to sleep with him once the kids were in school. He started playing, so I had to make a new decision to get him dressed, put him to sleep in his car seat, and then go to a new Mommy and Me I want to check out. Of course it took forever to put him to sleep, my husband made breakfast, he ate with us, and finally just a few minutes ago fell asleep, so I am rushing to get to the class as close to 10am as possible. Wanted to squeeze this in and point out a mom's life is always on the go, we do our best to be on time, but moms understand moms, and we know it all revolves around the kids. When they are newborn its nursing, diapers, feeding, naps, and now that he is one, we are trying to figure out the best way for him to have a restful night. So far just the two bottom teeth, but as I always remember, one thing passes and the other thing begins.
Another important timing event was with a client that I have had for years, she asked me to deposit a check 2 weeks later, I told my husband, he does all the deposits, he misunderstood, and even though the date was on there, the bank still deposited it, she was so upset, and I was upset, and all I can do is offer to pay her overdraft fee and apologize for the misunderstanding. SUCKS!
Timing has absolutely no part in birth, yes there is a due date, but it could be 2 weeks early or 2 weeks late. I was just learning that the due date was figured out by a study that only took into account 100 women, and it was ages ago. In the good old days, once it all began that is when the midwives came and waited for it to flow naturally. There is no right time, and that is why the Hebrew wish of B'shaa Tova, in the right time, to a pregnant woman is so beautiful.
Enjoy Every Moment of Today,
Coach Yulia
Where kids are concerned I really feel you just gotta do it, there is no right time, that is my opinion. I wanted them one after the other before 40 and that is how it happened, I got married at 34. I feel blessed that it was all healthy and right for me, Thank God. There will never be enough money, time, or the perfect circumstances for kids, you just figure out how to live your life around them. Bringing beautiful souls that will bring light into the world has been a wonderful experience. Day to day not so easy, I didn't sleep all night, my poor baby is stuffy, has teeth coming in, and his digestive system is still figuring out the stopping of formula and the starting of food. So literally all night waking up, so I am exhausted and decided to sleep with him once the kids were in school. He started playing, so I had to make a new decision to get him dressed, put him to sleep in his car seat, and then go to a new Mommy and Me I want to check out. Of course it took forever to put him to sleep, my husband made breakfast, he ate with us, and finally just a few minutes ago fell asleep, so I am rushing to get to the class as close to 10am as possible. Wanted to squeeze this in and point out a mom's life is always on the go, we do our best to be on time, but moms understand moms, and we know it all revolves around the kids. When they are newborn its nursing, diapers, feeding, naps, and now that he is one, we are trying to figure out the best way for him to have a restful night. So far just the two bottom teeth, but as I always remember, one thing passes and the other thing begins. Another important timing event was with a client that I have had for years, she asked me to deposit a check 2 weeks later, I told my husband, he does all the deposits, he misunderstood, and even though the date was on there, the bank still deposited it, she was so upset, and I was upset, and all I can do is offer to pay her overdraft fee and apologize for the misunderstanding. SUCKS!
Timing has absolutely no part in birth, yes there is a due date, but it could be 2 weeks early or 2 weeks late. I was just learning that the due date was figured out by a study that only took into account 100 women, and it was ages ago. In the good old days, once it all began that is when the midwives came and waited for it to flow naturally. There is no right time, and that is why the Hebrew wish of B'shaa Tova, in the right time, to a pregnant woman is so beautiful.
Enjoy Every Moment of Today,
Coach Yulia
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